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How do you define “Hapiness”? Some people get happiness seeing other people suffer. Everyone has different definations of happiness, but what is the MOST common defined “Happiness”? Some people get happy seeing their wealth grow and multiply. Some people get happy helping others physically, emotionally or financially. Some people feel happy being getting married. I need to know your answer.

How to see eye to eye?
My husband & I were raised very differently. His family valued money & success. My family valued love & happiness. We have been married over 1 year (living together more than 6 years) & now I am having many physical problems. I had a pregnancy that didn’t take in April & have been bleeding ever since. I am tired & sore & he refuses to massage me or touch me in any way…unless he wants to get laid. But I need some physical love & comfort from him & he sees it as a terrible task…unless followed by a BJ. I know he loves me & he thinks because he pays the morgage that I should just ‘know’ he loves me but it’s not enough. I have expressed my needs several times & he just frowns. I know he has come a long way - when we met he wouldn’t even hug me in public…now I can usually get a kiss. Our definitions of love are so different! I need more & he refuses to give it…how do we see eye to eye on this?